We all want love, we want everything love can offer, we want it all: sparks, and that
feeling of being obsessed with another person. But we also want lasting
love, security and healthy routines.The problem with having these desires is that they cannot normally be satisfied. What makes you feel head-over-heals in love is in part newness, insecurity and unpredictability. But most long-term relationships do not have a whole lot of newness, insecurity and unpredictability. Long-term relationships are not meant to be built on an unstable


